To grow in listening we need to understand why and how to listen effectively. There are many barriers to being a good listener but with practice and the help of the Holy Spirit, it is possible. To be effective listeners we first need to listen to God, to the culture, and to the people we are talking with. Four reasons why we listen: 1) to represent God; 2) to learn; 3) to love; 4) so they can listen. Often people don't need to be lectured or advised, but need to be listened to so they can come to conclusions and understanding themselves. Six tips of how to effectively listen: 1) be spiritually minded; 2) pay attention to non-verbal communication; 3) be non-judgmental and empathetic; 4) check for understanding; 5) validate what you have heard; 6) ask good questions.
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